ADN-428 Sneaking around with a close friend while his wife is away

“I want to see my grandchild's face.” “Are you married yet?” It got annoying and I finally said, "I'm dating someone on the basis of marriage." I thought this would calm me down a bit, but this time, a storm of reminders, "Bring me here quickly", "When will you bring me here?" This kind of thing... the only person I can ask for is him. "Wife... can I borrow it for the night?"